let_goSo all refreshed from a beautiful trip to the nature and back, I was left reflecting on what was the most important thought that I would like to have to start the year with.

It started off with a simple conversation and someone very close to me was telling me that its good that I have forgiven someone for something….The context of the conversation was about how we let our past ruin our present thereby our future…

And immediately I tracked back…. No…. I do not forgive…. It was an automatic reaction… and that stunned my friend… huh… and before… she could say more.. I added… I am no one to forgive anyone anything…. I am no one…

Some one sometime back once had asked me with lot of anger… 🙂  when in all my naivety.. I was suggesting some options.. 🙂

Who are you to help me  ? 
Who are you to do anything for me ?
Who do you think you are to say …. and so on… 

let-go (1)That time, it was like a blow…. to my consciousness… thinking that my only intention was for unconditional support and yes I did expect some kind of positive outcome.. and then it went to a stage where I thought maybe the other party was right…

I know know that till someone asks specifically for something, step away and maybe do what you can indirectly… maybe without that person knowing… yeah… its not needed to “rescue” anyone… they are living out their own contract …

And the answer to all the questions was… I am no one…

I am no one… to forgive or to judge anyone for any action.

And that statement coming from deep inside me removed some of the shackles of ego which keeps playing the monkey with me… 🙂

And saying this, it was like an epiphany…

The big thought was not about forgiveness as forgiveness for me also borders on resentment sometimes… which is not healthy

8776366_origThe big point was about letting go.. JUST LET GO…

I have seen that the supposedly “biggest sinner” becomes totally opposite filled with compassion and a zest for life when he or she sees you through the eyes of a person who lives without any clutter…

It is not always easy… but I have seen the difference it makes just by changing my attitude and seeing a favorable or peaceful response… whereby the soul lives for himself, can make good decisions and though I watch and observe, it is strangely freeing to see the wounded soul recover and fly with joy…. and all because of the fact that I let go… the change first came within me…

Even when society has labelled many labels, I choose to live the way I want and I let go…

Letting go means, I give enough and more space for the other soul to realize his or her mistake or choice and re-live the way he or she wants to… one cannot force someone to see the good or bad in their way of life.. one has to let them see it for themselves to truly bring forth the required change..

Letting go also means, that some souls will never change… and it is stupid to hanker after a certain condition of acceptance and look for approval from them… and its freedom to just let go and live the way your soul wants to…. in joy and in synchronicity with the divine source…

Letting go means to me, that I accept someone’s behavior and go my way… wishing well to them as they will also be guided when needed and we all have a free will to choose… our paths…

let_go-1Letting go means, that the past was hurtful… but I choose not to dwell on it and accept the fact that I need to move on and have a great present and an even greater future… connected to my divine self… and to the source…

Letting go means switching off from souls who like to dominate and switching on to see the divine being that they are… there has to be goodness… a Buddha inside everyone… I just need to go past my ego to see that… and reaching that is beautiful.. it strips away all rules and brings joy….

Letting go does NOT mean to escape…. no its not… but its even harder…. in real life but its easier if you understand it…  its like a blackboard… where many things are written and it is filled with formulas.. and which needs to be erased completely to write new concepts… to draw new vistas… and to keep doing that… if we do not erase, there will be no space for us to write new ideas..

Letting go of all the nonsense fosters good health and abundance… and that’s an important factor in my life…

I know that when I have the ego ruling me, I will live totally contrary to the above points.. but the point is to always have the ego set to Zero and live in harmony, taking in all the beneficial parts and letting go of all that puts us down…,

Yeah that is the thought that wanted me to write….

on-letting-go-248641-485-295_largeLetting go versus forgiveness… I prefer the first…

Letting go = blank it totally from the memory and the ego and the emotions attached to it..
Forgiveness = not necessarily forgetting… 

Letting go also brings in clarity of choice on how to proceed forward with my rocket of desires for a wonderful life…

So I work out all the kinks inside me to get to the point where I do erase everything and it can take some time… but the end game is to have a clean board to draw again…  🙂